“We People Belonging To Different Shapes”

Well i started thinking of this topic when i was caught in a argument with a friend!…..I think we people belong to different shapes!….Now what do i mean by that?…..I remember when i was i young, my mom bought me puzzles!…i was supposed to put the shapes in their respective place where they would fit in perfectly……When ever i tried to twist a triangle into the place of a square it just wont?
Just like that its with us people!…..in my philosophy we people are really squares, circles and triangles and having different colours etc….What i see people try to hard to hope in to professions which they never belonged to!……And even a much bigger problem arises when they don’t even know what shape they are? So what to do?
Its simply about one’s carrier!….Well its some thing very simple and a silent topic but can put one in a heavy loss in future….. Its mainly judging your self! and getting your choice correct!……….

                        For example engineering is a circle shaped mold so to become a engineer i have to be a a circle shaped mold first otherwise i may not fit in!……You get my point?……So its that we are really shapes……There may be many triangles but they would still differ in colour and size….hehe and it goes on…..If god has made me a triangle why try twisting my self in an other shape?…….So i am really very choosy when it comes to decisions about my carrier………..Think on it have your say?………..

*Choosing Your Field*

Its that people have problems choosing their field. This problem mostly occurs in small cities and where people are not groomed properly….!  

Its not that people don’t have skill and potential…. Its about showing them the correct path.  

In my perspective this problem is shared by a lot of reasons. Most of the people are unaware of the variety of fields available in the market, some are double minded, some don’t have any choice due to lack of  good institutes near and can not afford to go out, some think that there is no scope or less pay ahead!! 

These all reasons of a person are  very true! 

But it also depends upon us from what angle do we see things!……. if you ask from a 7 year old what will he like to do when he grows up?…….. He will say he wants to become a doctor, teacher, pilot, because that kid is looking at things from his aspect……..Right ! 

As he grows up he finds a bunch of fields and he starts looking at the practical aspects of those fields and starts considering money and luxury  as one of the priorities. But there are still problems….. What people don’t consider is that do they have the potential and skill available in them for that field?……….Which should be one of the top listed things when choosing one……..yes one should be very choosy, because if you get it wrong In future you are not able to enjoy one side of your life. Its that some how we start feeling un proud from what we do.   

 

AH! Any ways…. there are problems problems problems ! life is made up of problems all asking to be sorted out! 

But one thing which we should not turn our back around is optimism! 

And “try your best leave god to the rest”

Selfishness

Have we ever thought that how many times we are selfish in our daily routine from home to work and from work to home?

Even through our normal conversations we are selfish though we have never been taught as so……!     we want to be the first one to be the first one to exit the bus,…we want to be the first one to rush our car as the light goes green……even buying a ticket we cant stand in a line don’t we think how much others are hurt???…..but some times its just too good to be true! What this environment and life teaches us are small lessons which tend to change our thinking. Once we do good to some one we don’t get the same treatment as expected. Its those small things which hurt!!  And some how it is right to be selfish in some part of your life. Its that to snatch your share from what u deserve! Because this world is a very vulnerable place if we are not cautious enough people will eat us like any thing!!

So its that be selfish but at times when it is required!